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那些我們認為戀愛中應該這樣應該那樣的事兒

來源: dushu51.com 時間:2019-11-25 編輯: 人生感悟
那些我們認為戀愛中應該這樣應該那樣的事兒

奇葩說選手大王甩出了一個新詞:戀愛刻板印象。我有些好奇,就去查了一下。戀愛刻板印象指戀愛中的人們對某一類人或事物產生的比較固定、概括而籠統的看法。可以通過個人人生經驗獲得,個體通過直接與某些人和某些群體接觸,然后將這些特點固定化而形成的。還有通過間接的方式獲得的,對一些素未謀面的人,人們會根據間接的資料和信息產生刻板印象。例如父母的教育,影視劇影響。聽起來好像不是啥好事,因為可能會把這種刻板印象等同于偏見,上學的時候老師把偏見歸類為貶義詞。可依我經驗來看,偏見可以是中性詞。戀愛刻板印象確有消極一面,也有積極一面。舉例子吧,一個過于注重顏值的人,可能會失去認識相貌一般但內在氣質非常的機會,這可以算消極影響;一個按部就班從小生活在正常家庭里的人,結實社會上黑暗面的人的可能性就小,也會減少被傷害的機會,戀上暴力份子或罪犯可是一件不幸的事。當然這只是一個概率事件,人生有時會偏離軌道的,遇到什么人不是自己說了算,但性格因素會最終決定你的選擇,而影響你的人生。性格形成很復雜,也和生長環境分不開的。

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這也不是對錯的問題,也不涉及女權。不管你是女人還是男人,喜歡就去追,別被觀念束縛住。

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棋牌游戏“NANNVYUEHUICHIFANDESHIHOU,ZUIHAONANSHENGLAIMAIDAN”

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“NANRENZHIXIHUANXIANQILIANGMULEIXINGDENVREN”

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棋牌游戏“SUISHUDADENANRENDONGDEZHAOGUREN”

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不喜歡同齡男性,嫌他們太過嬌氣稚嫩,覺得年齡大些的男人更能包容體貼自己,在一起就能夠盡情地撒嬌耍賴棋牌游戏不講理:生活中不用為自己操心,因為他肯定會處處提醒,時時呵護;在工作上和人際交往上,他也能提供有效的建議,自己可以少走彎路。可是你忘記了會照顧別人是由一個人的成長經歷和特質決定的,不論老幼。需要自己慧眼識金。

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“AIWOJIUYINGGAIZHIDAOWODEXUYAO”

當孩子年幼的時候,媽媽知道她的所有需要,那是她最美的時光。在找到另一半的時候,她又感受到了幼年時那種無微不至的體貼,于是誤以為對方就是理想的父母。怎奈他只是按照自己的需要來解讀她的需要的。如有交集,是彼此的幸福;在交集之外,是需要磨合的地方。一起感悟人生