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家庭才是孩子真正的起跑線

來源: dushu51.com 時間:2018-12-29 編輯: 人生感悟
家庭才是孩子真正的起跑線

前幾年社會流行說不要讓自己的孩子輸在起跑線上。但是事實上,起跑線就是我們的家庭棋牌游戏,就是我們這些做父母的所有的一切資源:父母的智商、父母的情商、父母的日常習慣、父母的性格、父母所屬的社會階層,等等,這些才是孩子真正的起跑線。

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很多父母對我以上說的話早就了然于心,努力給孩子創造一個好的家庭教育環境。但優秀的家庭教育不僅僅是省吃儉用,報最好的培訓班;拼命掙錢,買學區房;低三下四找關系,想讓孩子入讀好學校,也不是在主流的功利教育棋牌游戏現實面前,大喊還孩子一個無憂無慮的童年,抵制應試教育。因為我們既不是不玩高考的上層,也不是放棄高考的底層,我們是焦慮的中層,是社會上最焦慮那一群人。

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引導孩子興趣廣泛化,并堅持下去。運動、閱讀、旅行、釣魚、書法、舞蹈、音樂、繪畫,只要孩子走心,不要成人的眼光定標準。帶6歲女兒學國畫的時候,常聽到家長批評孩子畫的不好,和老師要求的不一樣,甚至私下指導孩子。我勸家長多鼓勵,讓孩子堅持下去。因為開始我也犯過這樣的錯誤,后來女兒把畫給我看時,我會換一種眼光看她的畫,而不是“像不像””“美不美”。孩子漸漸喜歡上國畫課,還對我說,老師無論她們畫成什么樣都夸獎她們,還為她們的畫拍照。她喜歡這個老師,還一起感悟人生認識了新朋友。后來我觀察過一個暑期下來,原本30人超員的國畫班,只剩下一半了。朝三暮四是孩子的本性,但堅持對一個人的一生來說是一項美好的品德。

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在這里說的觀點只代表我自己,不是什么普世價值,如果能得到您的認同,我很高興。dushu51.com